Sunday, March 16, 2014

11 Signs That She Will Be The Right Woman

Not every lady that comes into your life would make a good wife. That a woman is beautiful, well dressed, of good accent, of rich background, vast in terms of knowledge or smart is not enough to prove that she will make a good wife. Men, you need to look beyond physical qualities to more beneficial qualities when making decisions on who to marry.
There are plenty ladies but few wives, there are lots of women, but few mothers. You need to know who you are and what kind of woman would be your help meet instead of making decisions on ephemeral qualities. However, to have a good woman as wife, you need to be a
good man, having the same qualities with what makes a good woman. If a woman will make a good wife, she will do the following:

1. She will genuinely care for you
Not all women are kindhearted, but there are some special breed who knows how to care for those they love. She will pay close attention to what that matters most to your life. Such as your health, work or business.

2. Ask about your future plans and see how she can fit into it

3. Give you wise advise on the things you should do that can improve your life

4. She's not after your money, status or achievements
Most women are after temporal things. When a woman truly loves loves you, she is not after your money, fame or achievements. She will naturally love without any material reasons or benefits. She does not depend on all these to love you.

5. She knows when to make you happy when you are sad
Since she is concerned about you, she knows when your mood or tone changes and will do all she can to make you happy. She has studied you closely and fully understand your emotional state.

6. She will treat you like the most special man on earth
There are female 'players' too just as male players who keeps several men for different purpose. A true woman that loves you will not be a leech, a pain in your neck and will truly adore you above anyone. She will forgo other suitors and ensures she treats you specially more than others.

7. She will share her dreams, passion and fears with you
Once she knows you pay attention to her and she is secured with you, she will talk about her dreams and fears, not that you should help, but she needs a listening ear.

8. She will never cheat on you
Cheating is a thing of the mind and a decision that is made. Since you are special to her, a good woman will never cheat on you when she has the avenue to do so because her mind is made up for you.

9. She will love you flawlessly and expresses it
Love is not sex. When a woman loves you, she will express it by helping you grow to become a better person not by giving you her body to keep you. She will go out of her comfort just to make sure you are happy and feel loved.

10. She is focused and principled
A good woman has standards and would never compromise her stand. She lives by principles and not by pleasures. She will conserve all her energies for a meaningful purpose and ensures she achieves it. She is a go-getter and doesn't take mediocrity as an option.

11. She is wise
There are few breeds of women who are mentally perceptible. They know what to do in most situations, give wise opinions and have good sense of judgment. These kind of women are good women who knows how to build their homes and make it comfortable for the husband and children. Biblically, they are called virtuous women.

That a woman has all these good qualities does not make her a suitable companion for you. Above all, you need to prayerfully seek God's face for direction. He knows the end from the means and He is the only One that can guide you in locating your missing rib. Remember, it is only the woman that fears God that is the only secured qualities to look out for in a woman because beauty is vanity. These points are guidelines for you to act upon. Don't go for beauty or things of definite value.

What other things do you think are qualities that make up for a good woman?


Source : nairaland

1 comment:

  1. Nice 1 buddy. I sure ll look out for dis b4 making my final decision.

    Stonecold!!!

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